Although I follow my ancestors’ spiritual path, I have incredible respect for the varied traditional paths my friends follow…and for those who follow no specific spiritual tradition. This post, which is the text of a sermon I gave today, does not and should not imply anything beyond my desire to share… and to lift up love where ever we find it.
“But to what will I compare this generation? It is like children sitting in the marketplaces and calling to one another,‘We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we wailed, and you did not mourn. For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, ‘He has a demon’; the Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Look, a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners!’ Yet wisdom is vindicated by her deeds.”
At that time Jesus said, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, Father, for such was your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father, and no one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.”
“Come to me, all you who are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11: 16-19, 25-28
This week’s Gospel reading is a complicated but rich text, particularly if we take on the challenge of trying to really understand what Jesus is teaching here.
At the time he delivers this lesson, Jesus has finished his instruction of the disciples, delivered the sermon on the mount, and has started to travel to different cities to teach and proclaim his message. Things are getting a little intense… John the Baptist is in prison, and Jesus is starting to be labelled as a trouble maker by the authorities.

The verse has three parts that at first don’t seem that connected… It starts with children in a marketplace, moves to infants who are wise, and ends with yokes and heavy burdens.
The first part of the verse, the children in the marketplace, starts with this: “What comparison can I make with this generation? They are like children shouting to others as they sit in the marketplace, ‘We piped you a tune, but you wouldn’t dance. We sang you a dirge, but you wouldn’t mourn.’
I had a lot of questions after reading this, but the biggest one was this: Who is Jesus talking about when he says “this generation”? Who are these people Jesus compares to children (and not in a good way) who refuse to participate, who reject the other children inviting them to take part in the joy of dancing and the grief of mourning?
The verse continues with this: For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, ‘He is possessed.’ The Chosen One comes, eating and drinking, and they say, ‘This one is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’
John was an ascetic. He fasted and lived without other comforts for spiritual reasons. But what’s important for our understanding of this verse is that the prophecy he proclaimed was a threat to the status quo, to the power of the religious leaders of the time. So they declared his fasting as a sign he was possessed by a demon.
Jesus wasn’t an ascetic. He loved a good meal and no matter what table he sat at, everyone was welcome. But they didn’t like that, either… so they called him “a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.”
From this we know that “this generation” doesn’t join in when they are invited to dance and mourn… and not only do they refuse that invitation, they badmouth the people inviting them. But we still don’t know exactly who “this generation” refers to because it’s left intentionally vague. Jesus doesn’t specifically call out the religious leaders who were protecting their religious authority. He also doesn’t call out the followers who went along with those leaders because they thought the way of least resistance was easier.
He just says “All y’all” (which means we are included) by referring to them as “this generation”.
The take home message here is that the religious leaders, political officials, and people who just wanted to keep their heads down to avoid trouble didn’t want to have anything to do with John and Jesus… because the message they were spreading was dangerous. It threatened to overthrow the status quo, to pull the rug out from under power… their power.
You’ll notice there is a gap in the gospel reading today… verses 20-24 aren’t included. I won’t read them all, but I think Verse 20 is important: Then [Jesus] began to reproach the cities in which most of his deeds of power had been done, because they did not repent.”
Let’s read that again – Then [Jesus] began to reproach the cities in which most of his deeds of power had been done, because they did not repent.”
It’s right there! Jesus’ acts of healing, teaching, and caring were “deeds of power”. That’s why the folks in power were so afraid of Jesus, why they slandered him, and why – ultimately – they crucified him.
But here’s the punch line, how Jesus ends his teaching about “this generation”… After he describes the slurs being used against John and himself, after he shakes his head at the “children” in power who were not understanding what was happening, he says this: “Yet wisdom is vindicated by her deeds.”
But he leaves us hanging… He doesn’t explain what that means. He doesn’t tell us who wisdom is (although we suspect it is Jesus). No, the next thing that happens is that he prays…
Then Jesus prayed, “Abba God, Creator of heaven and earth, to you I offer praise;for what you have hidden from the learned and the clever, you have revealed to infants.

An hour or two after a healthy baby is born, there is a magic hour or so where they behold the world they have arrived in. For that hour, they are wide-eyed and have an extraordinary expression on their face that is a combination of wonder, curiosity, and deep peace. They look around as if they can’t believe the wonder of what they are seeing, of this gift they have been given. I’ve never seen that expression on any other human face, of any age. (The closest I’ve ever seen is the face of the Dalai Lama and his friend Bishop Desmond Tutu when they are laughing with each other, but even then – it is not the one time holy gaze of a newborn infant.)
I don’t think we have words to describe the wisdom Jesus is talking about in this verse.
I don’t think it’s verbal at all.
But I think we all know it.
I think the wisdom Jesus is referring to is given to us when we are born, a wisdom that is reflected in the brief moment of wonder when we behold the world around us with inexplicable joy, as we experience God’s unforced rhythms of grace for the first time.
This gift of wisdom isn’t just a birth-day present, we all still have it. This gift, this grace, is within each of us at all times and in all places… we just have to remember that it’s there, a gift from the Holy Spirit.
It’s this particular kind of wisdom, this grace, that I think is the focus of the last part of today’s reading.
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
(Sometimes the poetry of the King James Version is just what the occasion calls for.)
Last week we had a special service to guide us in the practice of lamentation. We lamented together, and we learned about the need to bear witness to the heaviness we all carry, especially in these times.
Take my yoke upon you…
When we hear the word “yoke” we appropriately think of the heavy wooden crossbeam used to attach two oxen together, to let them pull a heavy load together…
There have been so many days I had to lean on this verse… The days I had hard conversations with grief filled parents, the days I was so exhausted I didn’t know if I could carry on… But even then, even when I found solace in these words, I couldn’t help but wonder….. Why, if I’m already carrying a heavy load, would the answer be to add more weight to my shoulders? Why would I want to add a yoke, even if it was the yoke of Jesus?
The answer to that question is (literally) lost in translation.
In the 1st century, when Jesus spoke these words in Aramaic, when he told his followers “Take my yoke upon you” it had a much deeper meaning, one that they would have all known… because the word Yoke referred to the teachings of a Rabbi, the specific way a rabbi guided you in the “difficult but joyous task of obedience to the Torah”.
Every rabbi had their own yoke, their own unique interpretations and teachings that their students were expected to live by… and Jesus was no different.
What was different was how he described what we can expect if and when we take his yoke upon us.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
Jesus says “follow me” at least 12 times in the Gospels. I’ve always seen that in my head as like following someone on rounds in the hospital (sorry, but it’s true)… walking physically behind them, trying to follow in their footsteps, having them lead me to the next place I need to go.
Eugene Peterson’s translation helps us better understand this verse and what it really means to follow Jesus… what it means to put on his yoke: “Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace.”

Today’s gospel lesson comes down to this:
Following Christ doesn’t mean what we usually think of when we say we are going to follow someone. It’s not about traveling behind Jesus, walking in his footsteps, having him lead the way…
Following Christ means walking with him, beside him in lock step – because we are yoked to him.
Following Christ means working with him to help co-create God’s kindom on earth.
Following Christ means watching him, learning from him, imitating him … in other words, striving to be true disciples of Christ.
Walk with Christ.
Work with Christ.
Follow Christ.
And you shall find rest unto your souls.
Amen
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